Thursday, November 28, 2013

Happy Thanksgiving!

What are you thankful for? This year, as always, I'm grateful to have given another year spinning around the sun with wonderful people, and also for a new addition to my world: this gorgeous gully.
gully gussied up with Instagram
According to a signpost it was once a one-stop shop for the Aboriginals, who found here fresh water, medicinal plants and it's within spearing-distance of the fish in the waters off Bronte Beach. This is practically in my backyard, where I get to start my days before work swimming in the ocean pool...
I'm thankful to be a part of the world, but not for how it's been managed. Thanksgiving commemorates the Native-Americans having helped the Pilgrims to survive their first winter… only to be later repaid with mass genocide. I'm also sorry that Aboriginals no longer roam the gully.   

Thursday, November 21, 2013

Stranger By The Lake

Have you seen Stranger By The Lake? It's a French drama that won the Queer Palm at Cannes...
It's set at a summertime lakeshore gay cruising area where men sunbathe nude and cruise in the nearby foliage.
Our head man on the make, Franck, prowling alone during the early evening, spots sexy Michel in the lake with his boyfriend. From his surreptitious vantage point, it looks like Michel and his boyfriend are just horsing around in the water, until he watches Michel drown the boyfriend and casually swim away.
Franck never admits to what he saw, but can't resist his attraction to Michel and he keeps coming back every day to have sex with him, tempting his own fate, and putting everyone at risk. At one point, a detective investigating the drowning sums up the way this community seems to show love to one another, and it's pretty dead on.
Stranger By The Lake saves on locations - it never leaves the claustrophobic lakeside. And besides the nudity and non-simulated actual gay sex, it's a slow-burner, which is to say Simon found it just boring. But when I sit down for a French film, I'm prepared to just sit down. I found it to be an insightful exploration and indictment of not just how gay men treat one another, but how we treat ourselves. In not unsimilar circumstances, we can watch someone die of a GHB overdose and still take GHB; we can watch friends die of AIDS and still have unprotected sex.
More than any other minority groups, gays love to circle the inferno. We dance around the edge to see how close we can come without actually being claimed by the volcano. I've done it myself. The risk is the thrill.  

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Hunger Games 2: Catching Fire

There's a smoldering new superstar catching fire in the new Hunger Games! The franchise is loaded with attractive young men, but it's not the gorgeous, charisma-free Hemsworth clone. Nor is it adorable, edible, twinkie dream Josh Hutcherson. Goldilocks has found something just right in the tantalising in the latest addition to the cast, Sam Claflin. He plays the seductively mischievous Finnick Odair.
Oh yeah, and the movie is fine too!